Appeals Court Rejects Ban on Children Attending Mother's Church

In Stancek v. Stancek, (MN App., March 10, 2014), the Minnesota Court of Appeals resolved a child custody dispute between separated parents as to their three daughters. Before the parties separated, they belonged to Word of Life Church where the wife's parents were pastors, and where one of the children attended kindergarten. When the couple became estranged, the Church's board of trustees sent the father a letter prohibiting him from attending the church. The trial court awarded legal and physical custody of the children to the father. It also prohibited the mother from taking the children to the Word of Life Church because "that would likely lead to the alienation of the children from their father ... or result in an uncomfortable worship scenario for the children...." Without reaching the free exercise and establishment clause arguments, the Court of Appeals held:

The record does not support the finding that it is “impossible” for the children to attend Word of Life Church..... The district court’s conclusion... is modified so that mother’s provision of care for the children (as an alternative to daycare) may be either at her home or at any daycare facility where she works (without regard to whether the facility is located at her church)..... Similarly, the prohibition on the children attending or otherwise being part of the Word of Life congregation is unsupported by the findings as modified, and the prohibition is therefore reversed.