Son's Ashes Are Not Property Subject To Partition Between Parents

In Wilson v. Wilson, (FL App., May 21, 2014), a Florida state appellate court held that the cremated remains of 23-year old Scott Wilson, killed in a 2010 auto accident, are not "property" that is subject to partition between the young man's divorced parents. In the case, the parents could not agree on where the ashes should be buried, so the father asked to court to allow each parent to dispose of half the ashes as they wished. The mother objected on religious grounds.The appellate court, citing authority going back to Blackstone, agreed with the trial court that the ashes are not property. The case now goes back to the trial judge who has indicated that he will appoint a curator or other suitable person to decide how to dispose of the remains if the parents are unable to reach an agreement.  The Broward-Palm Beach (FL) Sun Sentinel reports on the decision.

Child Parenting Time Order Did Not Violate Free Exercise Protections or Establishment Clause

In In re Peace v. Peace, (AZ App., May 8, 2014), an Arizona state appellate court rejected a divorced husband's claim that a trial court's order modifying parenting time violated his free exercise rights and the Establishment Clause.  At issue was a provision in the court's order providing that the wife will have the children on Christmas Day in odd-numbered years, and the husband shall have them in even-numbered years.  The husband complained that the court order did not mention the holy days of his Baha'i faith. The court concluded that the trial court's order does not endorse Christianity nor burden husband's religious exercise.

Appeals Court Upholds Religious Restrictions As To Children In Divorce Case

In In re the Marriage of Suzanne Paulsen and Timothy Paulsen, (WA App., March 19, 2914), a Washington state appeals court upheld a trial court's parenting plan that was entered along with a decree dissolving the marriage of the Paulsens. Among other restrictions on the father, the appeals court upheld the trial court's award to the mother, Suzanne Paulsen, of sole decision-making power as to the children's religious upbringing.  It also affirmed the trial court's ban on the father, Timothy Paulsen, engaging in prayer or discussion of religious matters with the children.  The religious restrictions, as well as visitation restrictions, were justified by evidence that Timothy, as a junior high school teacher, had sexually abused students, using religion and prayer as a technique to weaken their defenses to his sexual approaches.

Appeals Court Rejects Ban on Children Attending Mother's Church

In Stancek v. Stancek, (MN App., March 10, 2014), the Minnesota Court of Appeals resolved a child custody dispute between separated parents as to their three daughters. Before the parties separated, they belonged to Word of Life Church where the wife's parents were pastors, and where one of the children attended kindergarten. When the couple became estranged, the Church's board of trustees sent the father a letter prohibiting him from attending the church. The trial court awarded legal and physical custody of the children to the father. It also prohibited the mother from taking the children to the Word of Life Church because "that would likely lead to the alienation of the children from their father ... or result in an uncomfortable worship scenario for the children...." Without reaching the free exercise and establishment clause arguments, the Court of Appeals held:

The record does not support the finding that it is “impossible” for the children to attend Word of Life Church..... The district court’s conclusion... is modified so that mother’s provision of care for the children (as an alternative to daycare) may be either at her home or at any daycare facility where she works (without regard to whether the facility is located at her church)..... Similarly, the prohibition on the children attending or otherwise being part of the Word of Life congregation is unsupported by the findings as modified, and the prohibition is therefore reversed.

Court Says Parents Who Lost Custody of Child Have Only Limited Control Over Child's Religious Exposure

In In re T.K, (OH Ct.. App., Feb. 19, 2014), an Ohio appeals court held that when legal custody of a child is given to the child's grandparents, there are limits on the extent to which the child's mother can dictate the boy's religious upbringing.  The boy was originally placed with the grandparents when he tested positive for marijuana at birth, and custody was made permanent 9 months later with the parents' consent.  However the boy's mother objected to the grandparents raising her son in their Catholic faith. An Ohio statute (RC 2151.353(A)(3)(c)) provides that when legal custody is transferred, parents retain the residual "privilege to determine the child's religious affiliation."

The court of appeals upheld the trial court's implementation of the mother's preference by an order providing that  "the grandparents not engage the child in church activities or rituals designed for ... membership, including those required for membership into the Catholic Church."  The mother had wanted a broader order prohibiting the grandparents from in any way, teaching, indoctrinating, or actively exposing the child to any religion, Catholic or otherwise. The court however focused on the statute's use of the term "affiliation" and agreed with the trial court that exposure to religion is not tantamount to affiliation.